More Than Money Archive -> Issue 30

#30. When Differences Divide
August, 2002

When Differences Divide: Resolving Family Tensions Around Money
What do you do when you and your spouse have completely different views of finances? When your brother gets more? When your siblings think the profits should be divided differently? When family succession plans don't work out? When you can't reach agreement on a pre-nup? This issue explores the challenges that arise when family members have differing approaches to money. Includes "big picture" interviews with philanthropic advisor Charles Collier and Professor Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot, both of Harvard University; family stories of tensions resolved; resources, tips, and more. Applicable to nuclear and extended families, traditional and non-traditional.


Table of Contents

He Said/She Said: Arguing About Money

Succession Gone Awry: A Conversation with Joan

Bang for the Buck - Making it Easy: Loaning to Family and Friends

Resolving Family Differences

Step by Step: Our First Family Meeting

Choosing Not to Judge

Money and Relationships

Legacy’s Shadow Movie Reviews

Non-traditional Relationships: Words to the Wise

Our Differences Can Change the World

Premarital Agreements

MoreThanMoney Quick Click

Respect in Families: An Interview with Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot

A Sliver of Love: A Conversation with Andrew

Charles Collier's Ten Best Practices of Successful Families

A TALE OF TWO HEIRS: When One Gets More

The Glue That Holds Us Together A Conversation with Van Woods

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